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BBW (45) looking for Male Gladstone, Missouri, United States

I’m a slightly nerdy, sometimes geeky, complete dork! I say these things with the most love and admiration, so please don’t be confused about my self-esteem and/or confidence levels. Or my level of dorkiness, LOL!

I don’t wish to be fetishised.

I am rather loquacious and crave deep conversation on a regular basis. Small talk numbs me in most cases.
I am mostly noetisexual, and need mental stimulation above anything else approximately 98% of the time.

BDSM friendly.

I adore Pumpkins, Batman, Intelligence, Wit, Knowledge, Psychology, Art, Crafts,
Music (is Lifeblood!), Languages -
While on that subject, I know bits and pieces of several languages and continue my current studying of Japanese...

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National heritageAmerican
Height5' 6" (168 cm)
Eye ColorBrown
Hair ColorLight brown
Body ArtBranded, Scarred, Strategically placed tattoo, Visible tattoo, Other piercings


Relationship StatusSingle
Wants kidsNo
Wants to RelocateMaybe
Have PetsDog
Has a carNo

Education & Employment

EducationHigh school Diploma - GED or equivalent

Leisure & Fun

TV preferencesCartoons, Documentaries, Instructional, Movies, I don't like TV, Science fiction
Favorite TV showsI catch a show or film here and there, online, when I have the time and inclination to do so.
I do not watch television and abhor commercials — until I purposely want to watch spoofs of informercials LOL!!!
Favorite movies typesAction, Science fiction, Comedy, Drama, Documentary, Animation, Horror, Thriller
Favorite moviesCurrent enjoyed viewings: Annihilation

The Nightmare Before Christmas
Anything Stephen King or related
Most Will Ferrell flicks
Music typesCountry, Rap, Rock, Metal, Electronic, Pop, Classical, Blues, Jazz, Industrial, Latin, New age, Ambient, Dance, Soul, Reggae, Folk, Punk
Favorite artistsTom Waits, Joan Baez,
The Weeknd,
A Perfect Circle, The Mars Volta, Volbeat, Rammstein,
Patsy Cline, MGF...
Reading selectionAncient, Computers, Fantasy, Fiction, Health, Horror, Instructional, Philosophy, Reference, Science, Science fiction, Technical
Favorite booksThe Gunslinger series ~ SK
Anything from Stephen King
Idea of funThis changes moment to moment!
Video Games & Pizza
First Fridays art/music crawl
Road Tripping
Burn events
Comic Cons!
River swimming/floating/boating fishing
HobbiesExercising, Arts & Crafts, Reading, Learning, Music, Internet, Games, Dancing, Photography, Religion, spirituality, Travel, Cooking, Gardening, Camping, Fishing, Playing cards, Volunteering


SmokerDon't smoke
DrinkingDon't drink
Social behaviorFriendly
My great timeHanging out with friends, Staying at home, Trying new things, Relaxing, Sleeping, Reading a book, Playing dress-up, Playing video games, Going to a concert, Going to a museum
Always wanted to tryBaking macaron. It will happen!


ReligionNot religious

Looking For

Must haveIntelligence, Humor, Great skills, Empathy, Sensitivity, Boldness, Oddities, Flirtatiousness, Wit, Thoughtfullness